Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Blessed

There was a boy who was about to graduate from college, he had done very well in college and told his father that he liked this particular sports car very much and wanted his father to buy the car as his graduation present . Now you musn't think its ureasonable as his father could well afford that ca. On the day of the boy's graduation, his father called him into his study he told him how proud he was of his son and passes him e wrapped rectangular present. The son disappointingly opened it and inside was a beautiful leather-bound Bible. Th son angrily said: "Of all things you could afford and you got me this ?"
Msny years passed and the son was now a successful man with a happy family, But one day he thought about his father whom he had not seen since his graduation. As he was making arrangements to go and see his father, he recieved news that his father had pass away. In his father's will, his father had willed all of his possesions to him.
At his father's study, he found the same bible that he had left on the day of his graduation. As he flipped through the pages, it brought tears to his eyes till suddenly in the middle of the bible was a car key.
That car key had the same number of the sports car which he wanted as soon as the young man realised it , he cried unconslebly

How many times have we missed out the blessings we have in life ? We're usually too busy complaining how unfair or how difficult life is to realised how bless we are when there are hundreds of people in the world who would love to have what we have.

So take some time now to stop and think about the blessing we have in life, i dont care how miserable your life is, everybody has at least one person who loves us for who we are. Who is that ? well you'll figure it out, but as long as we have that love then we have every reason to feel blessed

Friday, January 7, 2011

same sex relationships

Hey ! Another new year , another time for new beginnings

I just watch another show recently which has different stories taken from real life scenarios . One of them was about a lesbian couple who ran away just to be together. But they eventually committed suicide after being unable to cope with the pressure as no one could accept them or their relationship. During the show , one of the girls mother tried to make them seperate, telling her daughter that people will change and that these feelings are tempoary , if she's willling to change she can still be NORMAL.

They were both perfectly good students with good grades doing well at school. And in the end their lives just ended like that

Notice how i emphasis on the word normal ? What is being normal ? I guess in different peoples perspective it has different meanings
Personally i dont have anything against this kind of relationships , maybe after being in an all girls school i'm used to seeing it.

But i dont see why people have to be against it. i mean it is love, and if they're willing to be comitted to one another i dont see whats there to be against.

My mom once told me that it was a choice that you wanted to be in a same sex relationship. Well alright then, if you choose to be in a same sex relationship then thats ok. ITS YOUR CHOICE. But you yourself must be ready for it, dont say its becuz ur in live. Yea ur in love FOR NOW, have you ever thought about seeing the two of you in the future ? If you cant then give it up.

So dont be afraid, if your confused abt ur feelings talk abt it to a counsellor and straighten up yourself. If your really gay or lesbian then accept it , dont let it or anyone else stop you for being who you really are .